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As a year-old woman and entrepreneur, I feel blessed and lucky to have a man who is younger than me and is the co-host of my Illumination.
My boyfriend split up with me because I am 10 years older than him After a few years of casual friendship, a man asked me out. He sounds like a guy who is attracted to older women but somehow cannot come to term with.
Sometimes he would talk about how much he wanted a family of his own before a certain age. During these conversations, all I could think about was how having a baby would ruin my body, drain my bank account, and disturb my Thursday-Saturday night rendezvous at the bars with my friends. No thanks. Not going to lie, I had my own expectations when I entered a relationship with an older guy. My ex-failed miserably at all of those things.
My boyfriend split up with me because I am 10 years older than him | Life and style | The Guardian
Now, my expectations for men are not based on age. His sex game kind of sucked. Plus, anytime I gave him suggestions on how to satisfy me better, he would just shirk them off. Growing older at different paces made me feel uncomfortable. I know this sounds super shallow but it was weird to me that he was going to physically age a lot sooner than I would.
He was less open to change.
And it was a total turn off. If you are looking for empathy and understanding, settle for an older man is not a bad choice. It makes him feel younger and more energetic.
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This, in turn, makes you feel loved and desired. He is aware of expected outcomes and knows how to handle tense and awkward situations. You do not need to worry since he will step in for you anytime you feel overwhelmed.
They will pay the bills, help with doing the laundry and keep valuable stuff safe. Go for an older man if you value responsibility.
He will pull chairs, open doors, reserve dinner and even call instead of texting.
That is just how he operates. If you meet a young man with such tendencies, they definitely were taught by their father. He may not have the energy to have sex all the time, but he may teach you a couple of things. He is also ready to listen and cater to your needs instead of letting his ego take the lead like his younger counterpart.
That relationship was fun and short-lived, but what I've learned since then has taken me a long way when dating older men. He cares about his future and even retirement.
This is great for me, since I am a whirlwind during the week and it balances me out. He Loves Romance With endless kisses, hugs and soft lit candles, he goes the distance to make sure you are happy and satisfied. When I would go away on trips and had my guy take care of my apartment, I always came home to flowers on the table, chocolate or homemade gifts.
You Look Good Together Besides feeling good together in public, you look great together, too. I got this comment many times with my last relationship and felt even more confident hearing it.